You Can Live Again

Life is a precious gift that we can sometimes take for granted. We all can experience situations or circumstances that leave us feeling defeated, hopeless, and unsure of how to move forward. It’s during these times that we may need a reminder that we can live again and that our future can be better than our past.

Perhaps you’ve experienced a major loss, such as the death of a loved one, a job loss, a breakup, or a divorce. Maybe you’ve been dealing with a chronic illness, a traumatic event, or financial struggles. Whatever the cause, the pain and difficulties you’re experiencing can make it seem like there’s no way out. 

But, the truth is that you can live again! You can have a new life filled with adventure, love, and success. It’s important to remember that life is full of ups and downs and there is no way of getting around it. While we may experience pain and suffering at times, there are also moments of joy, happiness, and fulfillment. It’s essential to focus on these positive aspects of life, especially when we’re going through tough times.

Here are some steps you can take to remind yourself that you can live again:


  1. Take good care of yourself. When we’re going through difficult times, it’s easy to neglect self-care and allow ourselves to go down a depression spiral. However, taking care of yourself is crucial for your physical, mental, and emotional health. This can include getting enough sleep, eating nutritious foods, exercising, and practicing relaxation techniques like meditation or yoga.

  2. Seek support. You don’t have to go through tough times alone. Reach out to friends, family members, or a therapist for support. Talking to others can help you process your feelings and gain new perspectives on your situation. Even if you’re not much of a talker, getting your emotions out and off your chest can make the weight of your problems literally feel lighter.

  3. Set goals. When we feel stuck or hopeless, setting goals can give us a sense of purpose and direction. Start with small, achievable goals, and work your way up to bigger ones! Celebrate your accomplishments along the way, no matter how small they may seem. It might seem silly at first, but having a little silly in our lives can lead us to create a lot more happiness!

  4. Find joy in the little things. Sometimes, it’s the small things that can bring us the most joy. Take a moment to appreciate the beauty of nature, listen to your favorite song, or indulge in a favorite treat. Do the little things that matter most to you and truly savor them.

  5. Focus on gratitude. Practicing gratitude can help shift your mindset from one of negativity to one of positivity. I know shifting your mindset can feel like a tremendous endeavor, but if you take it moment by moment, things will get better. Take time each day to think about the things you’re grateful for, no matter how small they may seem.


It’s okay to feel sad, angry, or frustrated when you are going through tough times. These emotions are a normal part of living as well as fundamental in the healing process. However, it’s important not to let these emotions consume you and run your life. Take the steps necessary to remind yourself that you can live again, and that brighter days are ahead of you if you so choose to have them.

Remember, no matter how hard life can get, you can always choose to live again. It’s important to take care of yourself, seek support, set goals, find joy in the little things, and focus on gratitude. Life will be filled with ups and downs, and it’s okay to experience difficult times, they help us appreciate the good times even more. By taking these steps, you can remind yourself that you have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenges that come your way.


Sending so much light & love to you, my friend.

~ Vivian